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in what country?

USA. In USA your chargeback initially is usually taken on face. They'll usually reverse the charge within a week or so. But after that they let the merchant appeal it.

Most merchants won't. But if they do, your bank isn't going to bat for you. If it looks like it's going to take them much time or effort to deal with it they're liable to just throw up their hands and let you duke it out in small claims court.

In my case they had a megacorp ready to fight it on one side, and little old me on the other. So some lady on the phone just insinuated I was a lying scammer and told me my case had been reversed. There was some sort of appeal process I tossed my hat into but it went straight to radio silence and I've not heard from them in years. I would have taken them to court but I moved cross country around the same time and it would cost me $2000 or so for airfare and hotel rooms to show up to the right courts to get $1000 in judgements.


I am a bit confused about your situation. Did you have a stolen card used to make a purchase at ebay that was not under your account? Or did you make a purchase at ebay and have an issue with the product you received?

Scammer created two e-bay accounts. One with my name but e-mail address "pirate" something. A second one, a scammer merchant account to wash the money.

They stole my credit card and used the bogus "me" ebay account to generate invoices (to my real address) and payments for goods from the second scammer merchant account. Then they found tracking numbers to my zip code. They bought the (fake) items from their scammer merchant account using their scammer "me" account. They used those tracking numbers to show the items were shipped and received to someone in my zip code (which is the only publicly available data from the tracking number). Of course, at no point were any of the goods "purchased" by "me" even real, but rather just ways to wash the credit card returns.

When I discovered what happened, I requested ebay refund it. Ebay claimed that since the accounts weren't actually mine (only in my name) I had no right to request a refund. So I could claim they were mine and then be ineligible for a refund because the underlying reason would be vaporized, or not claim them as mine and then be unable to ask for a refund because it's not actually my account -- a catch 22. The tracking numbers, again, since they weren't actually to me, the shipping companies refused to reveal the underlying data to me and I couldn't get any of the evidence showing it wasn't me.

At that point, I had my bank do a chargeback. Which they initially granted. I thought it was a done deal at that point.

Ebay sent all these invoices matching my name, with tracking numbers to my zip code, with my credit card being billed, etc to my bank along with a bunch of pages of banking mumbo jumbo about how the chargeback was wrong. At that point my bank turned face, called me a liar, and reinstated the charges. Not long after this, I noticed e-bay shut down the scammer account but they never refunded me the money. I assume the scammer had sucked out the money faster than e-bay could act to claw it back and when e-bay realized they'd be holding the bag they decided to dump it on the fraud victims.


You didn't provide any evidence that the charge was fraudulent. If they have a tracking number you gotta provide something, at least a police report.

Also you likely filed "merchandise/services not received" when you should have filed "unauthorized transaction". Even if you really did get the item, you don't have to pay for it if it was ordered by someone else using your card.


Honestly the only thing I had was one tracking number was generated an entire day before the supposed purchase, the 'pirate' email address (they were taunting me), that the religious items purchased were not of my religion, and that ebay had closed the scammer account. But my bank was not interested in taking on ebay. To the scammers credit, by creating both the buyer and seller account they made their scam a lot more resistant.

Also it was charged back as fraud. I had other fraud transactions that day and my bank reversed them. They were too scared to fight ebay or something.

I've learned proving a negative of "prove you didnt buy this" is pretty hard and thus fraud protection is more of a facade that only kind of works.


> If it looks like it's going to take them much time or effort to deal with it they're liable to just throw up their hands and let you duke it out in small claims court.

In the US, couldn't you just make it their problem by not paying the disputed portion of your bill? (I haven't tried this myself and don't know how hard it is to dispute a negative credit report without going to small claims court in the end.)


When I asked this back in early 2022, the community prediction was Dec 2024 so we're 1.3 years late. Not bad.

https://www.metaculus.com/questions/9558/50-of-users-access-...


Meta employee count has been increasing for the last 3 years, same as other tech companies: https://www.macrotrends.net/stocks/charts/META/meta-platform...

PIPs and layoffs have always been a thing in tech. That's kinda one of the defining traits of the industry.


3k is less than I expected considering median disposable income is ~50k. Where does the rest go?


That figure for "disposable income" doesn't include tons of effectively-mandatory spending.


average ≠ median


Yeah, but surely this goes in the other direction rather than answering the question; average > median


AliExpress obviously isn't comparable and the price is irrelevant when it takes 2-3 weeks vs same-day/1day


Depends much on what you are buying. There are many cases of totally not urgent things that costs 75% less. So waiting makes totally sense.


How often do you actually need something the same day?


Almost always, considering the price is only $5 more


>The most common fare I’ve paid on Empower over the last six months is $7.65. For a recent trip from downtown to the airport, Uber wanted $32. Empower wanted $17.25.

>DC is trying to shut Empower down, primarily over liability insurance. DC law requires $1 million in coverage per ride.

>The $1 million requirement isn’t sized to typical accidents. When $100,000 is the limit available for an insurance claim, 96% of personal auto claims settle below $100,000.

>The high ceiling shifts incentives: plaintiffs' attorneys have reason to pursue cases they'd otherwise drop and push for larger settlements. Fraud rings have emerged to exploit these policies.

> insurance is around 30% of fares, particularly in states like California, New Jersey, and New York which also require additional $1 million uninsured motorist coverage and/or no-fault insurance


> You can't get healthcare

Kinda thing only sheltered people say. When I was unemployed and on free gov't health insurance (medi-cal), I got all my healthcare for free and most of my appointments like MRIs were next-day. Not as good as tech company insurance, but "can't get healthcare" is not a thing in the US.

> you have to work three jobs

Plot the number of people working multiple jobs vs time and you'll see a flat line that has no correlation with the stuff mentioned in the article: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/LNS12026620


62-65% of all bankruptcies in the US are tied to medical expenses.

Your comment is a textbook example of survivorship bias.


Medicaid is a poor substitute of a proper PPO plan. The reimbursements are low, so there are fewer providers, and it requires you to not have any assets.


Medicaid is better than most PPO plans!

Sure you’re more limited with providers, but there are plenty and out of pocket costs are near zero.


That day the student was the 100th person to pick it up, realize it's fake, and drop it


> The wealthy already run the country

Dude this is a programming forum. Aren't you "The wealthy"?


Strictly it is capitalists who run the government.

While an individual can be wealthy, it is those who own the wealth-making-assets who control the government, AKA the capitalists. Because controlling the wealth-making-assets makes you an important element of national security, so you get a seat at the table.

While making 750k a year means you get a seat at your companies table to do what they require of you. It is very very different. It's capitalists VS workers that matters. Not strictly the wealth levels.

PS. Also I got laid off, I'm broke, lol. To all you childish mofos who think I'm a socialist because I'm currently broke: False. Some people are raised socialists.


I'm guessing you're asking this question instead of just trying Adderall and answering this question yourself because you know it takes a long time to get appointments for diagnosis. FYI there are lots of online clinics in the US that will give you a diagnosis and send a prescription for $$$, not covered by insurance. After doing that, you can get refills from your normal Dr/PMHNP and local pharmacy for free/cheap. There's no point speculating about potential results when you can test it empirically.


Kind of that. I'm not USA based. In my country you can do it through gov. insurance which is a lot of bureaucracy that I can't handle. Will go through the private route (fast) and pay out of nose. This to help my anxious mind and learn through the experiences of others.


That’s super interesting, as I’m in the exactly same boat as OP.

Did you by chance went through this process yourself? If yes, would you mind describing the process in more detail?


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