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I try to balance my life between new and exciting experiences and more routine and mundane experiences. The routine and mundane are important. They are how I maintain my important relationships and pay the bills. But when it all becomes routine, time will fly by regardless of age (at least for adults). But my sense of time reliably slows to a crawl if I have enough new stimulus. And the older I have gotten (40's currently) the more I have gone out of my way to purposefully generate experiences that slows things down.

I lived abroad for 2 months a few years back and it felt like 6 months. I moved states not long after and once again, massive slowdown. That first year in a new city felt like three. New relationships can do the same thing. As can new jobs or, even more so, a career change. And let's not forget drugs.

But those are all things a person can completely avoid if they don't make a conscious effort not to. My default for many years was to sit snuggly at a boring job, travel only intermittently and otherwise immerse myself in repetitive media. I refer to those as the lost years (mid-to-late 20's).



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