I've used the Valve Index before, it's a great experience but not something that I found to be groundbreaking or life-changing.

You just haven't found your App yet.

I don't think it's that... I've tried many VR apps and games (as far back as 7 years ago!) and it's just not for me. Don't get me wrong, it can be fun and engaging, but not a game-changer. And that's fine, people are allowed to enjoy what they want to enjoy, and vice versa. There's a reason people have personal preferences.