LOL, sure, should have mentioned rather than just asserting and running away...
IIRC Xubuntu (or at least the last Xubuntu install I used) has 'greybird' as its default theme.
On debian you'll want to install the "murrine-themes" package to get this and a whole load of others. To change Xfce themes completely it seems you need to go into settings->Appearance and settings->Window Manager, which is a bit clunky.
I'm not going to say it's the most awesome thing in the world EVAR, but after years of Gnome 2 and 'clearlooks', it's refreshing.
IIRC Xubuntu (or at least the last Xubuntu install I used) has 'greybird' as its default theme.
On debian you'll want to install the "murrine-themes" package to get this and a whole load of others. To change Xfce themes completely it seems you need to go into settings->Appearance and settings->Window Manager, which is a bit clunky.
I'm not going to say it's the most awesome thing in the world EVAR, but after years of Gnome 2 and 'clearlooks', it's refreshing.