Some divorce laws seem to have the goal of being fair on average no matter what happens in many cases. Other laws seem to desire fairness in a few cases while causing unfairness in many more.
In California now, If you don’t understand why there are so many false claims of domestic violence at the beginning of a custody battle you may be in for a world of hurt.
In the case of someone I know, the wife’s notes from a meeting with a prospective attorney included “DVRO=$”
DVRO is Domestic Violence Restraining Order.
For 10 months he only saw his kids with 3rd party supervised visitation costing $100 per hour.
If he was intentionally reading the notes his wife took of attorney meetings regarding their divorce, you may want to consider the possibility that the DVRO was genuinely sought.
at times - you've to make divorce laws fair.